r/expats: rules, promo tolerance & best time to post
248.9k members · strict — no promo (2/10) · tone: Thoughtful and supportive, with people seeking advice and validation for major life decisions.
Can you promote in r/expats?
Strict: this community removes promotional content on sight. Contribute value only; pitching here risks removal and a subreddit ban.
r/expats is a supportive, introspective community focused on the emotional and practical realities of living abroad. Members reward vulnerability about loneliness, homesickness, and decision-making anxiety, and value advice from experienced expats. The community enforces strict rules against self-promotion and negativity, with mods prioritizing substantive, considerate discussion over promotional content or complaint-venting.
- DO ask specific questions about visa eligibility and logistics with context
- DO share personal experiences and emotional challenges—the community rewards vulnerability
- DO seek wisdom from older/experienced expats—these posts perform well
- DO ask about making friends, cultural adjustment, and mental health impacts
- DON'T post blog/vlog links as top-level posts (comments only)
- DON'T ask 'Why does [country] suck?' or negativity-focused posts
- DON'T submit survey posts
- DON'T debate immigrant vs. expat terminology
- DON'T ask vague questions without researching basic visa eligibility first
- DON'T self-promote or post article links without community context
Best time to post in r/expats
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r/expats official rules (8)
- Posts must relate to the subject of expatriation — Posts must relate to the subject matter of expatriation. Questions about living in or emigrating to another country, posts about your experiences in a particular country, etc.
- Be nice to each other. — Be nice to each other. Uncivil conduct, ad hominem attacks, violent, racist, homophobic, transphobic or sexist attacks will result in temporary or permanent bans.
- Follow site wide content policy — Posts must follow the site wide [content policy](https://www.reddit.com/help/contentpolicy/). Violations of the content policy may result in bans and reports to the reddit admins.
- Do some basic research first. Know if you're eligible to move to country before asking questions. — If you are currently not an expat, and are looking for information about emigrating, you are required to ask specific questions about a specific destination or set of destinations. You must provide context for your quest
- No blog/vlog/article links in posts — Blog/vlog/articles promotion does not engage with the community here. You're welcome to link to your blog/vlog/articles in comments, but not as top level posts.
- No discussion of the term "immigrant" vs "expat" — This discussion has been done to death and new posts on this subject are just troll attempts at this point. For the purposes of this subreddit, the terms are interchangeable.
- No surveys — We get a lot of surveys. People are tired of them. We're no longer accepting survey posts.
- No "Why does country/city/continent suck" or "Why did you leave?" posts — These posts are just stirring up negative sentiment and rarely contribute anything positive.
What this community complains about
Recurring pain points in recent threads — each one is a conversation your product might belong in:
- Loneliness and difficulty making genuine friends
- Homesickness and missing family
- Decision paralysis about whether to move or return home
- Cultural adjustment and superficiality of friendships
- Health impacts of major life changes (time zones, isolation)
- Practical logistics (visas, pet relocation, licenses, schools)
How locals talk
expatWFHvisarelocatinghome cultureabroadmoving backposting up
Using a community's own vocabulary is the difference between reading as a member and reading as a marketer.
FAQ
Can you self-promote in r/expats?
Strict: this community removes promotional content on sight. Contribute value only; pitching here risks removal and a subreddit ban. r/expats has 8 official rules — check the promotion-related ones below before posting.
What is the best time to post in r/expats?
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How many members does r/expats have?
r/expats has about 248.9k members.
What is r/expats like?
r/expats is a supportive, introspective community focused on the emotional and practical realities of living abroad. Members reward vulnerability about loneliness, homesickness, and decision-making anxiety, and value advice from experienced expats. The community enforces strict rules against self-promotion and negativity, with mods prioritizing substantive, considerate discussion over promotional content or complaint-venting.
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